smallI had a wonderful time at DOMCON in New Orleans this year, it was my first time ever attending an event like this. I was cordially invited as a special guest so I hopped on a plane with TS Mistress Mia and flew to NOLA to officially pop my DOMCON cherry! It was comforting to be around women that share the same ideas about female supremacy. It was a small gathering of a few dozen of some of the best in the biz along with submissives and lifestylists actively in the scene. I regret not meeting more Mistresses while I was there, but since this was held in a party city, there was a lot of drinking going on all around me. Most don’t know it, but I gave up drinking alcohol almost five years ago! It definitely made it more difficult for me to attend certain events, I just didn’t want to be tempted to drink. In spite of being sober and also a shy introvert I still had such a great experience that I thought I’d write a blog post about it!


After getting settled into our hotel room, we went to a tax class that was taught by a super cool guy named Jack.

We ate at the famous ACME oyster house which was amazing.


The next day we went shopping at the vendor fair and bought all kinds of goodies. We bought an interesting leather belt strap from Leather by Danny called a “split thumper” that has a few interesting uses besides just belting. The latex store was awesome, steel bones sold corsets, and an electric toy vendor that I didn’t happen to catch the name of, and Canes 4 pain etc… We attended an interactive single tail whip class taught by Sir Valentino Harrison and Cupcake Harrison that was fun and informative.

We ordered some really kooky food from room service like shrimp and stone ground white cheddar grits with louisiana barbecue sauce! I can’t tell you how amazing and totally delicious this dish was! OMG

We went to Morning call for beignets in City Park. It was beautiful out there and it reminded me of Central Park in New York City and has been in business since 1870! We spent so much time walking all over the place that we ended up losing weight!cxpl7frviaeiu3k

We attended a humiliation class with Mixtrix and took the group photo with all the Dommes that attended the convention and afterwards I was interviewed by Dom Tv!domcontracy

Someone got the bright idea for us all to parade as a group down Bourbon street wearing our fetish attire, the drunk tourists just watched and cheered us on. After that I ended up doing a quick 15 minute ball busting video with Andre Dipré! I’ve never done a video for pay before and I will say it was super fun. It was late and we were both famished and couldn’t find anything to eat that sounded good then we remembered that Cafe Dumond was open 24 hours a day so we decided to get french donuts again.fullsizerender-12

It must have been 1am and it was super cold and windy, the holiday spirt had arrived! We ate the delicious hot, melt in your mouth beignets with not just any old hot chocolate but more like chocolate decadence! It warmed us up and put smiles on our faces and the faces of everyone around us.
Sunday we went back to the vendor fair and bought more fun stuff and then went to a cute little outdoor eatery called “the Green Goddess” with Domina Shannon and Mistress Devore from Houston.fullsizerender-13

Our checkout time for the hotel was fast approaching so we said our goodbyes and made our way back towards the hotel. We were starstruck when we stumbled upon Darth Vader dancing in the street right in front of us! I think his official name is “Saint Vader”, but whatever his name is it was an awesome sight and a wonderful way to say goodbye to DOMCON and New Orleans!