Recent topless bar experience

Went to a topless bar recently with my slave and another Domina.  Slave t was prepared to lunchwithaviewput down some serious cash so we could humiliate him with a few of the dancers.  It was sad that not one dancer would acknowledge our presence.  The girls seemed to be more concerned with getting drunk with customers that didn’t seem to have two pennies to rub together.  Maybe i’m judging the girls too harshly but it seems to me that if you’re gonna be a topless dancer, and your job description is to hustle to get dances and you’d rather sit around and get drunk then whats the point of being there?  It was so lousy that we left with a wad of cash that could have made a girls night.  

Rule #2



Verbalization is necessary, but at the appropriate time and in the appropriate way. Your top needs to know basic information about you, such as experiences, fantasies, health concerns, and turn-offs. But -unless it’s an emergency – wait until your top asks. Don’t expect your dominant to be a mind-reader instinctively knows your needs, wants, and limits. Your cooperation will enhance the scene for both of you.

Multiple sploshes


A fellow Mistress asked me to share this email..After reading a few sentences, it was apparent that many Dommes in Dallas have received this unimaginative copy/paste email… 



Hey there!

I saw your ad, and not only are you gorgeous, but you look like a lot of fun, so I wanted to drop you a line and see if you’d be interested in what I’m sure is an unusual request.I know it’s not your normal thing, but you seem really open minded, so…

I have a bit of a fetish.  I’m into what’s called WAM, or Sploshing (I’m not surprised if you haven’t heard of it.. lol)… and basically what it is is playing with food, but not in the traditional put a little on, lick a little off kind of way.  What WAM involves is getting “pied and slimed” Nickelodeon-style.  We’ll both end up with completely covered head-to-toe with sweet tasty foods like chocolate, pudding, whipped cream, big cream pies (only things we both like), with an emphasis on covering each others’ head and face.

I realize it sounds completely weird and goofy — but I promise it really is a lot of fun, and totally erotic.Is this something you’d be interested in trying??  I have a few cute messy pics from around the web if you’re interested.  Either way.. if you could email me back, I’d appreciate it :-).

I’m looking forward to hearing from you, and I hope we can get together for some fun soon!


Back in the saddle again…

It’s been so long since the last time I posted.  I couldn’t type too much because of an overtraining injury.  It put me out of commission for a whole month!  No training, no working no NOTHING.  Worst time of My life.  I’m so excited to be mostly pain free,  but still have to be careful not to reinjure myself.  Looking forward to getting back into seeing more submissives and writing again. 🙂  _MG_3660








It’s not easy whipping you boys and girls into shape! Running around in high heels, and working out everyday,  while having a sharp pain in my left foot.  I’m taking a few days off to recover,  and going to lay on my ass and catch up on emails ect…  I see the podiatrist monday so hopefully he’ll tell me it’s  minor,  and I can get back to my workouts quick.